THIS…Is…EXACTLY…What You Need On A Friday…Trust Me! 💃

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The phrase “You are what you surround yourself with”…comes to mind with this post.

One thing I’m sure a lot of people hate about me…is…I play my music…louuud…when I’m getting about in the car.

I’m respectful enough in residential areas…but…away from them…I prefer the inside of my vehicle…to sound like a concert hall…or stadium. 😂✊

I grew up in the music industry…so…always tend to get a little bit extra with my sound system.

It’s part of my life…my…story.

Recently…I pulled up into a car space at a super market…around lunchtime…sun…absolutely shining.

From entering the car park…to…finding a space…you would have heard my music for no more than 15/20 seconds…before it was shut off.

It’s not like I was parked up all day…with the volume at it’s maximum…holding an illegal rave.

Still though…a guy…around 70 years old…came…pacing up to me…having a go about the tunes…as I got out the door.

Listened to him go on with himself…moan…and cry at me…for a good 30 seconds.

Smiled…and…offered him an outlook…a…perspective on life…I could tell…actually made him deliberate his whole existence.

I gave him the script I’ve developed for situations such as this over the years…which went very much something like:

“My friend…I respect your opinion…totally…I get it…but…allow me to offer you a completely different perspective to the situation you’re currently faced with.

You say I’m a nuisance…that I’m out of order…but…realistically…I’m harmlessly…briefly…bringing life to the day…bringing…a bit of expressive vibrancy.

You’re winging and moaning now…going on with yourself…but…on your last day…on…your death bed…when…you know it’s time…when…you know it’s close…and about to pass you by.

I guarantee…you’d give absolutely anything to be able to just go back and hear this 20 second nuisance again.

You’d give anything…to…feel…hear…experience…the rhythm of life…just one more time…before it was all gone.

What may seem an annoyance today…can…turn out to be one of the real beauties of being here in the first place.

If you lost your hearing…became deaf over night…and…had to live the next 10-15 years with no sound…ever again…for example.

Do you think you’d still remember me pulling into this car space the same?”

He did as most people do when you front them back this way.

Shut his mouth. (I’ve developed many scripts for many reoccurring situations in life 😂)

Some may agree or disagree with my stance…you’re totally entitled to…butttt…I’m far more right…than…I am wrong…that’s for sure.

Had this tune below blasting out yesterday evening.

Funnily enough…sat at the exact same junction I had my accident at…on the way to the same friends house…outside the Robin Hood pub.

Guy pulls up next to me on his scooter…and…just starts dancing.

I smile…look at him…give the thumbs up…and…naturally…start dancing too!

We’re at a red light…moving and grooving…him on his scooter…me in my car…both vibing to the sounds of life…together.

Next minute…there is a woman walking down the pavement watching us…laughing.

When I make eye contact…she smiles and does a little shimmy down the road!

Light turns green…I…salute the gentleman on the scooter…and…move on as he goes his separate way.

It’s about connection…more than anything else.

Such…simple things…can bring people together…can…make us…feel together.

I couldn’t live a life where expression is suppressed…so…my message today…my friends…is:

Whether you are in the car…in the house…or…walking down the street.

Get this turned up…LOUD…and feel the absolute vibes.

Even a none smiler…will…struggle not to smile…it’s…infectious!

Will radiate a cold wet windy day if you need it!

Many wouldn’t think a man of science would be getting down with a reggae gospel sound…but…we’re all in it together…and this gem can’t be denied 👊 (YouTube blocked me from being able to share…so…only a snippet if you don’t have the Spotify app!)

I’m about to press play again…so…get the ear plugs on the ready….Wooooo!

Have the best day ever my friends ✌️❤️

 

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20 thoughts on “THIS…Is…EXACTLY…What You Need On A Friday…Trust Me! 💃

    1. Haha thank you my brother!

      Defo one to avoid anger with!!

      I’ve had to piece together certain scripts in anticipation of those type of conflicts.

      My initial response…deep down inside…is to come back harder and more aggressive than those I feel have come at me unnecessarily.

      Something I still work on to this day 😂

      Having what already to say memorised…makes me able to keep the anger away…keeps my mind focused…and once I’ve said my piece…I’m back to normal!

      I just chat so much shit…in such a different way… the other person can’t even keep up 😂

      Bamboozle em!

      Hope you are having the best day ever!! ✌️❤️

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      1. Fuck, that’s a good idea. I kind of go with that “gut reaction” you’re eluding too. Either that or I grit my teeth and say nothing, then walk away fuming. Maybe I need to learn some scripts.

        Take care buddy, hope you have a great day as well.

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  1. You don’t go wrong. “We’re all in it together…” and no gem should be denied. But, might this not be what everyone needs in all days of the week…?

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    1. I like the way you do business. Aint not other way to pump them out is there haha! Perspective is key. We all have our moments I guess. Just gotta keep those good vibes rolling!! Hope the day has been an amazing one for you.

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  2. What’s wrong with them dude, music is the life and soul of the party…… You did well to bite your tongue, I think he had probably forgot what he did when he was young… 🤔Keep on playing lee!! he’ll just have to face the music and dance…. 😂.❤️✌😁

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    1. Most definitely the life and soul!!

      It’s happened loads of times over the years…usually going into places that that (You’d think I’d have learnt to just shut it off by now 😂)

      I put a lot of effort into biting my tongue and trying to be human in those situations lol.

      Always handled it the opposite way in my younger years which caused nothing but more trouble!

      Yeah…maybe!!

      Perhaps he never even realised he had the rhythm inside of him until that day!!!😂

      I’ll keep on playing if you keep on playing!

      Two stepping through life!

      Hope the day has been amazing ✊✌️❤️

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