Be Careful…With…The People You Let In

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Change…is no more than a calculated risk…that turned into a complete leap of faith.

Many will undermine you and your actions…but…the blood…the sweat…the tears…where were they?

A focused driven person does not have time to care about the negative opinions of others…and believes passionately in their cause…regardless.

They keep going.

That negativity…will always exist…but there is a choice to let it prevail or not.

Just because somebody is close…or wants to be so…it does not mean they have your best interests at heart…and will be prepared to facilitate any positive change…smoothly.

Life…is a game…and it is the players we select to have on our teams…that help mould and shape the chain of events…leading to who we are…and what we become.

We’re all in it together…so…we have to choose…wisely…in my experience.

There is a reason armed robbers and youth workers don’t hang around with each other on a Friday night.

Positive people…surround…themselves…with positivity.

We all know it’s true!

In this self obsessed…social media world we’ve had prescribed…it shows us…consistently…the odds of resentment for one of our successes…are much lower than the odds of a true reaction of happiness…which…echoes the fact that…one of the hardest things for us to do in life…is look at somebody close to us…and have to realise we’ve outgrown them mentally.

Things change…people rearrange…I always say.

It’s not a disrespectful act…it’s…evolutionary…healthy.

There will be many instances where cutting ties and moving on are necessity…if our goals are to truly be attained.

It’s better for both parties in the long run.

There will also be many instances where bonds develop that can last forever…never deteriorating…and those bonds are worth more than any monetary value.

This post is no more than a reflection…a pondering…rambling…rationale…of human interaction…and how it impacts each and every single one of us.

No matter how strong a person can be…no matter how much cognitive awareness…resiliency…or control they exhibit…we…still…are all open to positive and negative influence from those we let in too deep.

That’s where analysis is fundamentally key.

When asking people on a daily basis in my clinic “What do you think is stopping you pushing forward to achieve…X…Y…or Z” (Which is usually described to me as a “Dream”)

99% of times…it’s to do with others opinions…views…reactions…etc etc.

Never keep people around your closest…most private space…if they do not compliment your journey…vision…and well-being…no matter who they are.

The only other option is wasted time and energy…while you try to push forward and they pull back.

A power struggle surely ensues…to which…there can only be one winner…and…if it isn’t you…then…the relationship tore your dreams to shreds.

Nobodies perfect…but…preserve the refinement of your sanctuary…as sacred…whatever…that means to you…my friends.

We are who we surround ourselves with…so…surround yourself with those who encourage and truly support. (Truly support for your benefit not theirs and vice versa)

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Soft Tissue Specialist – Movement Analyst – Elite Performance Coach

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13 thoughts on “Be Careful…With…The People You Let In

    1. By you leaving a comment like this…I can’t tell you how much I appreciate it.

      Just as with the fitness post we interacted on together…your ability to be open and real about the way you feel is totally inspiring to me.

      You have the rare ability of being able to stand up against conventions and paradigms which is galvanising for me in return.

      A lot of the time people don’t comment as I purposely write topics that make us think deeply and address some of the biggest and most important areas of living.

      I put my thoughts down…and if people vibe…then it’s a benefit.

      We are all in this together…and…you have given me more motivation to keep going.

      Thanks for being you!

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    1. By you leaving a comment like this…I can’t tell you how much I appreciate it.

      Just as with the fitness post we interacted on together…your ability to be open and real about the way you feel is totally inspiring to me.

      You have the rare ability of being able to stand up against conventions and paradigms which is galvanising for me in return.

      A lot of the time people don’t comment as I purposely write topics that make us think deeply and address some of the biggest and most important areas of living.

      I put my thoughts down…and if people vibe…then it’s a benefit.

      We are all in this together…and…you have given me more motivation to keep going.

      Thanks for being you!

      Liked by 2 people

    1. Thank you for taking the time to read and show love. I really appreciate your comment and couldn’t agree with you more about the creative energy and growth.

      It’s nice to know I’m connected with like minded people.

      Hope you are well!!

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