Without a shadow of a doubt…one of the absolute…realest things you read today.
Over 6000 words and maybe your waste of time to read them, who knows?
Alas I continue….
Running a clinic that fixes broken people and makes professional athletes, better professional athletes, I find dealing with the whole bodybuilding and aesthetic body image topics, very difficult.
I come at it with clinical and logical reasoning but more importantly, deep, personal experience.
Get your crash helmets ready my friends, because I’m about to probably offend and bewilder a few people here, without ever trying or wanting to, for nothing more than the greater good.
I’m certain that my opinion is more valid, honest, heartfelt and pure than 99% could ever begin to offer you.
DISCLAIMER…I’m not just talking about bodybuilding and bodybuilders here, I’m talking about it all, this aesthetic lifestyle the world is being force-fed down it’s throat.
I’m talking about the way the aesthetics, the modelling, health, beauty, cosmetic, fashion, celebrity and fitness industries are together as a collective, as a combined whole in 99% of instances, in this day and age.
What they do and what they really are.
It’s all one big industry now, it’s all the same thing, merged into a sprawling covenant of lies, dressed up and packaged to whichever target audience is being sought out.
You can’t separate them, the lines have been so blurred that they need each other to survive and exist.
It’s not just them it’s about us…
This post also applies to any man or woman obsessing or worrying about that perfect body, that perfect image, look, shape, size, status, representation or life.
My aim is not to hurt any feelings, it’s to try and help, because I genuinely care, because, somebody needs to have the balls to say it.
Believe me, if you did what I did on a daily basis and saw, what I saw, then you would know that this is one of the most prevalent things that needs to be spoken about and discussed in general society today, especially for the next generation, as it’s only going to get worse and worse, at such a rapid rate even I underestimated it.
It’s a global form of terrorism that few can seem to see.
I honestly believe that the majority can, but it’s much deeper than that.
It may not be political, although we see it all consistently influences politics, as even that’s now like watching an episode of Jerry Springer or The Jersey Shore these days.
It’s all about being a celebrity, being noticed, talked about, fake, larger than life, a character and nothing, to do with, politics?
There might not be anybody blowing things up, flying planes into buildings, stabbing, or shooting, but there are people still dying over all of this, on a daily basis, both mentally and physically.
Many of you reading will call that extreme to say within itself, but I would suggest to those people they actually stopped for a second to critically think and look at just how many outlets and avenues those representations I mentioned above, together, amalgamated, as one, as dominant factors and driving forces in society, create for an increased chance of mortality on a human being.
An increased chance, much earlier than necessary, especially if you do not exhibit control.
I find it hard to not see things this way, because these days I’m about the experiences, the evidence, the cold hard facts, the science.
I have to be about all of those, for my job.
It’s not something you really want to dwell on thinking about, at all, but still, we can’t allow ourselves to be foolish enough to not be aware of the fact that each time we wake up, there are far, far more things that could kill us in an instance, let alone over a prolonged period of time, than there ever could be beneficial outlets that kept us alive.
It’s kind of obvious to be honest, as realistically, logically, we are pretty miniscule, irrelevant and unimportant in comparison to nature and the continued natural existence of the world and it’s preservation.
So to think that the increased likelihood of mortality from these outlets is being far fetched, I say…well…just look around you in general?
Take yourself out of the dream and see how vital it is, to look after yourself.
Some people were just going to go and it was their time, when it was their time, yes, maybe, probably, that’s life, but a lot of people through all of these different criss crossed social ideologies and representations are winding that clock unnecessarily forward, at a staggering rate.
You physically can’t tell me they aren’t, or they can’t, because I’ve been guilty of it more times than the majority of you reading this post have in the past, I’ve seen it, experienced it, been a part of it all, lived it.
The full explanation of avenues, causes, reasons, probability and exacerbation of the increased chances of mortality caused by these unrealistic socially imbedded industries, are far too wide and varied to fully decipher or begin to try and explain in a blog post.
Not only far too wide and varied, but also in a lot of instances, undiscovered.
It’s all there if you are prepared to sit down and spend the time analysing and questioning it all.
Just think about this…and this is pretty crazy for me to be able to give just one simple, basic example, which blows every doubt you may have about that statement, completely out of the water.
I don’t actually need to explain it, to prove it, all I have to say is that, we most definitely, obviously, honestly, blatantly, live in a society that takes away and detracts from our natural, human, physiological functionality in almost every area we have, it’s unquestionable, I don’t personally think you can physically argue that point.
We don’t even need to break it down, really,do we?
Most importantly perhaps, I feel, is the most sadistic form of that terrorism, the constant mental variation, the constant mental and cognitive torture, the psychological bullying.
These industries together, put the minds of so many people, on a global scale in this day and age, into what many if they were being honest could only describe as hell and constant sympathetic arousal.
Some may be pulling a face about that, but that’s what I get told behind closed doors, most days.
That can be worse than death, it is worse than death if you’re never going to snap out of it, or escape it, if you are going to live that way day in day out, second by second.
I’d take dying any day, over a life of that, seriously.
It’s literally, like living through constant torture, constant mental and neuromuscular anguish, constant pain.
The brain and the nervous system can be more complex and cruel than many in society are prepared to learn about, or are prepared to admit to themselves or anybody else.
You can very easily be a billionaire, living in a mind that creates a much worse quality of life, than a bloke with no money, with just enough for him and his family to survive, in a third world country, who’s content with life.
Where you live and what you have doesn’t even come into it, as long as you have enough to survive.
Just go look at the stats on anxiety, stress disorders and paranoia levels from kids, teenagers, all they way up to flipping 60 year olds in this day and age and tell me there isn’t a major problem. (And that’s only the stats from the people who have actually come forward about their issues)
Go and look at the stats, on how many different categorised versions of anxiety now exist and for what reasons those categorisations were invented and tell me we haven’t got a problem.
Look at all of the nonbiological mental health problems plaguing society in every class system, every sex, every age, every walk of life.
Look at the sheer amount of happy pills that are getting produced and dished out.
Go to the mental health sector and ask them if the actual quality of life inside of people’s minds is getting better and better across society.
The representation of life has evolved so far from what is natural that there is bound to be some form of malfunction at some point, one that we will all need to address, if we want to progress, it’s just inevitable.
It would happen if life was more natural and realistic, it’s normal, so what do you expect when it’s gone this way!
Please do not be naive enough to say that something that I guarantee is either affecting you or somebody close that you have contact with on a daily basis, right now, that is affecting people mentally and physically, in so many negative ways, world wide, from so many different angles of cumulative propaganda, is not a form of terrorism, manipulation and control.
It affected me…which is why I’m speaking about it in the open.
It’s going to be hard to truly express and quantify this post as I have dedicated the last 11 years to this type of thing and within that time I’ve been privileged and lucky enough to see, learn and experience a few things.
I’ve hustled and bustled my way through the game, on my own, trying to grow from all of my mistakes.
That’s why these days I’m paid to help a varied demographic of people through many different musculoskeletal and neuromuscular problems, in a private, one on one clinic, or out in the field as a soft tissue specialist, movement analyst and elite performance coach.
It’s not that I know it all, I don’t, far from it, we are always consistently learning, evolving, developing and growing, but this type of topic falls within my area of expertise, it falls upon a subsection and part of what I specialise in and a part of what I get paid to do.
This isn’t just a random blog post.
With this especially, I’ve been there, done that, worn the flipping T-shirt.
You too have experiences within you’re endeavours that transcend generic expertise, that I do not understand myself, we all have them and I am always prepared to analyse, compare and contrast your logic on those that you specialise in.
If you can show me that 2+2 makes 4…then 2+2…makes…4…and I accept it, every single time.
So let’s please just get a few things straight before I start addressing the subsections that need addressing, before anybody starts going mad at me and getting emotional and upset over this…
I’m actually the guy that male and female bodybuilders/aesthetic gym trainers/models/gym goers etc etc…go to when they mess themselves up in the end, when they finally realise that they need help and have never really had a clue about the human body.
I’m the guy they trust when they admit they haven’t discovered anything about biotensegrity, physiology or true movement on their path chasing a distorted ideology, because I’ve been there myself in the past.
I show them respect when they realise that what they do is a manifestation of a deeper, much bigger problem.
A problem they need help with.
This isn’t an assault…or an attack…it’s the words that will help…if you are prepared to listen.
If a person or establishment approaches me to work with them…then I do…again…it’s my job…and a part of what I’m passionate about and live for, it’s nothing special, I’m just simply telling you how it is and how it pans out the majority of times on this subject matter.
This is what usually causes the biggest problem…
If you do bodybuilding/modelling/aesthetics, fashion etc etc, if you focus on the way you look, if you promote the way you look or concern yourself with how people view you, your life and your choices…then…you aren’t in shape, at all, you’re unfit physically but most importantly and dangerously…mentally.
The body does not work properly without the mind, it always has to start there I’m afraid, as it’s the driver controlling that steering wheel across the bumps in the road.
You’ve bought into the hype, found your defence mechanism and you’re currently in a bad way…just like I used to be years ago.
You’ve either allowed yourself to become manipulated into thinking you are a beacon of motivation, setting the example for yourself and everybody else to follow.
Allowed yourself through media and a vast array of social propaganda to believe that you are the embodiment of fitness, life, success, strength, winning, prosperity, wellbeing or health.
Or…you’ve just been suckered into thinking you are actually helping people by being a part of it.
It’s pretty delusional to be honest, any of it, all of it.
It really is when you break it down on a cellular level.
If you focus on aesthetics and the way you look and they are your primary concern, then you are literally, the absolute, complete, polar opposite of fit and healthy, I need you to understand that.
They are the complete, opposite, in almost so many ways it’s mind blowing.
They have absolutely nothing to do with fitness, health, happiness, mental health, wellbeing, self discovery or positive longevity and you really are in trouble if you can’t see any of that.
It’s not a path you want to be on if you are looking for homeostasis, calm and prosperity in life.
Most of what I do now involves the neuromuscular connection, deals with how the brain and the nervous system work in unison with the body.
I’m so lucky, more than I ever imagined, because I’m one of the few people who actually gets to have real human conversations and interactions these days, in a private setting, in a world full of filters, lies and papered over cracks, behind closed doors, when all defences are down.
I get told the things, in confidence, under the guise of professionalism and data protection, that people don’t know how to tell their husbands, their wives, sisters, brothers, friends, acquaintances or colleagues.
Double edged sword…
It’s a gift, yet such a curse, as consistently on a daily basis I get to see, hear, feel and experience the real world and you begin to see that it’s nothing like the front 99% of people are putting up now socially, dominantly.
You start to see that not many truly talk about their deepest feelings and beliefs in the open, within general society nowadays and it’s understandable why.
Most people are scared shitless of doing so and the majority are inventing or following blind representations to hide or try and find who they really are, or to feel accepted and part of something.
Thats why we have so many carbon copies walking around from an array of different subsections and categories, conforming to whatever it is they have been suckered into thinking is their “Acceptable normality.”
I’ll tell you this…honestly…believe me…it’s usually the biggest…the baddest…the hardest…toughest…most popular…”beautiful”….men and women…that cry when they get to shut the world out with me in a clinic. (Not to say everybody cries, but when they do, alot of the time, it’s the ones you would never expect and I never judge them, we’ve all been there in some way if we have the balls to be honest)
Before I delve any deeper with this topic…
If you disagree with me on it, no matter how professional you are, that’s ok with me, I respect that and I honestly respect you.
All I ask is that if you want to disagree, or you want to debate what I say, then let’s do it.
Let’s do it, but it needs to be done publicly, in front of an audience or live in some manner, in real time, for the real world to see and hear us talk and interact as humans.
This is something I know more people need to understand and I already know there isn’t a single person in the world that could actually fully discredit my points, as I’ve lived this for too long, too many times to be so wrong.
I have the access to many platforms and stages to talk on and can provide you crystal clear microphones to speak and get your point of view across.
I am prepared to sit there in complete silence allowing you to talk, I will listen to every single last one of your points, in full, making notes on every single one and on the rarity that you changed my opinion, I would admit being wrong to the entire audience, apologising sincerely to both you and them.
Just wanted to get that out the way as by this point I’m fully aware there may be quite a bit of retribution from some, for writing this.
Bottled up resentment gets us nowhere, helps nobody, listening and talking does.
I gave up on bodybuilding about 4/5 years ago when I grew up, when I realised it was a clinical psycological condition, that needed eradicating.
I got into it at 20, when I was immature, naive, just finishing puberty and didn’t understand the world, my emotions were all over the place, I didn’t know who I was and was open to be manipulated.
I’m 31 now, I’m a grown man.
I can tell you for certain that the manipulative type of conventions and representations from these type of outlets, absolutely chew up and spit people out.
They attack those who have private issues within their minds, like we all have, each and every single one of us at some point in our lives.
They are masquerading as many different positive and enticing entities, while striking the people who are lost, precariously selecting individuals who are trying everything within their power to run away from those issues and put up a front, instead of dealing with the real fundamental route causes of their problems.
Perhaps even more severe, alarming, reckless and hazardous, is how they attack people who aren’t even running away at all.
People who think they have found their way, people who just want to help and just don’t know any better, or people who just need an answer to a question in life they do not understand how to overcome, one which is causing some form of mental dysfunction or self doubt.
That dysfunction, you guessed it, yes, again, that is going to happen to each and every single last one of us at some point, as there are many questions we will not have the answers to in life, it’s the stimulus for growth that breaks so many of us if we are not careful, so I need you to see that we are all susceptible.
Even if you think I’m a mad man, just trust me, take a leap of faith and start drumming this in to your kids heads, because there is a wave coming that 99% of future parents cannot see and are not going to be able to handle if things carry on going the way they are going.
Think about it…logically…please.
As soon as people hide behind all of this bullshit it suddenly becomes acceptable, it becomes something of substance and if you can’t already see that, then let me wake you up to another fact…
99% of modern day Western society obsesseses about the way they look and how they are viewed, much, much more than any proper tangible, viable problem that could and needs to be fixed in the real world.
It’s how they sell us so much pointless shit and so many pointless beliefs and ideologies we don’t need, by attacking our minds.
It has poisoned even 3rd world countries and alike…
I’ve just come back from travelling Indonesia, the small, undeveloped, beautifully untouched islands and you can see the American dream starting to poison those now.
Each place in the world has their own problems, but I’m talking about the ones on my side of the world.
Society is totally brainwashed into thinking things like bodybuilding, physique modelling, modelling, fashion, celebrity lifestyle and aesthetic social notoriety are “normal,” beneficial, positive, good, reliable, honourable outlets to have.
Things that only a demigod or goddess could do, something to be admired, something of achievement, substance, fame and valor.
It’s honestly a joke.
I mean…honestly…just look at them now…all in their millions across that social media going on like they have just finished open heart surgery, like they have just performed CPR on a drowning child, just cured aids, cancer, world poverty and hunger, in one selfie, all because they have a pair of biceps, a sexy arse, flat stomach, big tits, pretty face or just did a few squats.
Like it actually has any significance in the real world!?
Like the human body and mind don’t crave exercise no matter who you are, like it isn’t an evolutionary trait?
I was bad when I was a part of it, but never this bad, I still had a pure message, I just wanted to help myself and others, but instead was just completely blinded, tricked, bamboozled and cohersed into thinking I was creating a positive outlet, when I wasn’t, at all.
What this is….is just…something else all together and it’s rapidly getting bigger and bigger and it’s becoming the norm.
The people in charge and at the forefront of health, fitness and wellbeing are in it for themselves, not for you.
Those that are in it for you, have the smallest voices because all they have to sell you, is your own self and your own actions.
People’s lives are their own and I advise you to always do what your heart beats for no matter what anybody says, but when somebody can see so many fundamental flaws in the name of caring, sometimes, it’s just time to at least question.
Think about it…think about…this.
Who dominates health, wellbeing and fitness…when you are turning to it in need of help…who are you going to 99% of times…bodybuilders…fitness models…models…celebrities…”personal trainers”…steroid abusers…drug addicts…charlatans…medical drug pushers…supplement and pyramid sellers.
It’s not the people who are selling you yourself, people like me are all blocked off by the conglomerates and social masses, it’s the people who are trying to sell you them and their lifestyle who prevail.
The people trying to sell you their company and it’s marketing tools, trying to sell you the magic pills, powders and potions along with god knows what other product, service or ideology.
It’s congested with people and companies who are raping and pillaging your minds, your bodies and your bank accounts, for their gain, for their betterment.
You, him, her, I, we don’t get a look in.
Let me break down 99% of the modern day bodybuilders, Facebook celebs, Instagram models, fitness celebs and all the other bullshit artists out here today.
They physically can’t walk past a mirror without either obsessing, fixating, posing, checking themselves out, flexing, or bigging themselves up, while at the same time deep down actually constantly putting themselves down.
They spend the vast majority of their day obsessing about how they and other people look, with a constant need for attention, acceptance and approval from others, or a need to be told they look amazing, are an inspiration and are good enough to exist.
They have a constant need to show off their body, be dominant, looked at and told they are bigger, better, sexier, stronger, fitter or more dominant than the “normal” person, or the person they actually truly feel like inside, behind all of the fronts.
They can’t go out without looking like a female street walker or male gigolo selling their flesh, because they feel inadequate if people can’t see or make out their body, their beauty, their sexiness and “amazing achievements,”
They become nothing more than an aesthetic representation, nothing but a piece of meat, losing track of everything important and beneficial in life, descending into madness as the body runs it’s natural cause of decay into their older years.
They dangerously and frantically obsess about body fat percentage and food, while placing those insecurities upon every single other person who they inspire, even though they have no real knowledge, background or experience of true physiological nutrition and how the human body actually functions, exists and survives.
They obsess about food to the nth degree and go through stages of extreme restriction, then uncontrollable binging, while trying to pass all of those insecurities to other people, while trying to pass them off as the normal, acceptable, beneficial, everyday thing to do.
They suffer mood swings and depressive outbursts over the way they look and what they ate, some times it’s elation, over the top fulfilment and joy, some days it’s just not anywhere near good enough and life is suddenly descending into chaos.
They frantically search and buy into any blag, trick or method out there they feel could make them that little bit better, even if they don’t work, wasted their time and money, could kill or adversely affect them.
They spend most of their time taking silly, pointless, dangerous, unnecessary, mass produced, bashed up supplements, available in snake oil shops, sold by snake oil salesman, that they have no clue about, or they take an array of different drugs and hormones that could very easily kill or mess them up in the end, yet, still promote it all as positive to everybody else and the “norm.”
They can’t stop these days flaunting their lives in over dramatised fake scenarios, premeditated situations and poses, posting online about being real, about how amazing they are and how much of an inspiration their body and lifestyle is.
They follow the crowd, they follow whatever is acceptable within their category or target audience to stay popular and relevant and would sell their souls for a shot at fame. Would sell you for a shot!
They step on stages and get pictures taken, desperate to be told they are good enough by a person or people they don’t even know, desperate to be told that what they were doing was right and something people looked up to, desperate for a following online to tell them that they were the man, or the woman and that what they were doing in life was worth it.
Like my picture…like my picture…like my picture…please.
They are deluded enough to think they are part of a specialist privelidged community that stands out higher in society, that are actually helping and benefitting people, while missing or not caring about the fact they are crushing themselves and alot of others around them mentally.
They spend their life doing something most actually know deep down tears them apart, breaks them down and tires them, yet, would still approach the lost and naive in the hope of getting them to do it.
They either see what they are part of and don’t care, or even scarier, they haven’t got a clue themselves.
They know nothing about true nutrition, true movement, true exercise, true anatomy or physiology, yet they spend their lives bombarding people with information about nutrition, movement, exercise, anatomy and physiology.
They take every single serious issue in the world, then decide to focus on solely themselves and even crazier, the way they look, while getting everybody else to do the same, while disguising it as fitness positivity and health.
They trick you into the insecurity of believing that everybody who does not see the positivity in their endeavours…is a hater!
They get away with the fact that most “fit,” in shape healthy, real, women that are looked up to nowadays, have fake tits, fake arses, cosmetic surgery, starvation, filters, photo editors and chemical compounds to look the way they do.
The men are just as bad, using filters, chemical compounds, cosmetic surgery, starvation and distortion to name just a few.
￼It’s like a drug…it’s an unhealthy addiction…it’s like crack.
Coke heads offer you coke at parties…don’t they?
They don’t say…”Stay off this shit, it’s bad for you, it can wreck your life, mess you up, take your soul, kill you or risk your health.”
They don’t even seem to see or accept cocaine, is crack, just a chopped up, bashed up, less purer version.
They put a spin on it because the white powderd version is more socially dominant and accepted.
They offer it people socially because it makes them feel better about their own stupidity and if the room is doing it with them, it’s not as obvious at face value, that they are doing it to hide from real life.
They do it to hide from their insecurities and psycological problems.
Or they are too blind and stupid to see the problem in the first place.
It’s the same thing…it’s…a…front…a front that creates a CNS response.
Bodybuilding, aesthetics, modelling etc are not for those in control of their lives.
Not for those that want to critically think, yet it is so hard for any of us now to avoid.
You become the odd one out if you don’t believe in this modern day filter we have over the natural world.
This lifestyle is spreading like a virus and becoming the norm, meaning in this day and age it’s starting to affect the minds of general society, even the intelligent.
It’s too mainstream to not talk about now.
It’s going to rip the next generation to shreds, because it’s embedded within our tapestry of life, unless we stand and step up.
It’s always been there, throughout history, it’s just now they have the technology and the parameters in place to implement it fully and successfully on a mass scale.
It is affecting the young and the older at a staggering rate.
How many 40/50 year old women you met, who obsess unhealthily about younger women now, who are running around frantically going on about their bingo wings, their tits, stomachs, arses, bodies, look, dress sense, make up, hair, nails, lips, eyebrows, tan, social representation and if the world still finds them sexy or attractive…no matter how beautiful they are!?
The majority of 16 year olds…20 year olds…30 year olds…are no different!
Thats why 99% of people look or act the same!
Like there isn’t any real world, grown up problems to be focusing on?
How many men do you see at 40/50 now obsessing about getting abs, or arms?
I want the 6 pack, give me the 6pack…how do I build more muscle…it’s not working!
How many men do you meet who say they don’t care about their body, but the second they get in a room with somebody in shape, they get jealous and insecure like little boys.
How many grown men, don’t feel like men, don’t act like men and are told they aren’t men unless they look like a super hero or have constant alpha male dominance, no matter how intelligent they are, or how much they bring to the table?
We’ve got a majority of grown men and women who never feel good enough, who are always focusing on aesthetics, social representation and how other people view them, who don’t see the eloquence of their minds and unique individuality, who, are the same people, in charge of the younger generation.
How many young yooooung women you met now sticking botox in their lips, head and arse, looking absolutely alien to real human beings, looking like a Bo Selecta mask, when they were already beautiful in the first place, at crazily young ages.
How many of them painting clown faces on themselves to hide from the real world, obsessing about every inch of their body.
Kerry from down the road, who spends every week partying and drinking and can’t bare to look at her face without makeup on, is qualified now in only 2 weeks to do botox on 18 year kids and naive impressionable young women!
They can get it done down their local shopping centre now, after the nails.
Sounds like a really responsible society we are living in?
Women of every demographic keep popping up with botoxed this and that, it’s the current rage, each to their own, but I question how many physically and psychologically, genuinely needed it.
How many young 16-18 year old lads jabbing steroids and buying pointless supplements because they aren’t big enough, hard enough, swoll enough. man enough, ripped enough, sexy enough.
Jimmy from down the street who spends his weekend coked up, shagging birds and wanting bigger biceps to make him look harder, is giving these kids and impressionable young men, hormones and hormone advice.
How many men in general jabbing steroids and even botox in themselves now?
How many everyday men and women think they are social media models now, inviting thousands of random people into their fake glossed over, premeditated life?
How many going under having to keep up that facade..forever.
How many young 10/11 year old kids now obsessing about how they look, their weight, their bodies, their social status and aesthetic image instead of playing outside, kicking balls, riding bikes, getting muddy and dancing under the street lights.
11 year old kids I meet nowadays all have grown folk problems, it’s fuckin crazy, 12 year old girls in make up wearing clothes they see from social representations that they don’t even realise are sexualised and provocative.
Parents unable to say or do anything because they don’t want their kid to be the odd one out…to get bullied, or more like, the parents are part of it themselves!
How many people hate their jobs, their lives and their existence, all because they are constantly told they are boring and mundane if they aren’t a celebrity, rock star, movie star, sports star, model, sex symbol or rich.
Where you think all this type of stuff comes from?
It comes from a society deluded enough to allow aesthetics, fashion and this bodybuilding/cosmetic/celebrity propaganda to prevail.
I’ve met more than I haven’t, I’ve had it chew me up and I was very close to starting steroids.
Nobody is safe unless you put the effort in to consciously staying away from it all.
It’s funny because I’ll have many people reading this probably pissed off because I’ve hit a nerve…because i’m in the deepest part of the crevices of their mind right now, and it’s like I know them…isn’t it!?
They will resent me…and this post…but a couple years down the line they’ll end up searching for my clinic, searching for me, asking for my help and I’ll welcome them with open arms.
I’m always here for you.
The sad thing…the really sad thing…is that 99% will never have the strength to admit what I’m saying, out in the open, so the lies and the distortion will continue.
I’m going to leave it there…I’m not going into any more detail as I could genuinely still be writing in a years time and not have even scratched the surface of what I know, what I’ve seen and what I’ve experienced.
Think to yourself…did I just write over 6000 words on this…very easily…because I know nothing about it?
You aren’t going to change 99% of people but you have the opportunity to affect that 1%.
It’s worth it, it’s how we create change.
To my colleagues and fellow professionals…
I love and respect you all, but if any of you don’t like this type of realism and honesty in the clinical, professional world, if it offends you and you think it’s unprofessional, then please, do me a huge, gigantic, monumental, massive favour…
I’m not in work now, this is my space, my blog, my thoughts, my feelings as an individual, away from work, as a singular human being.
You have taken the time out of your life to search for it and read it.
It’s there only because you wanted to know if it was there, you could have just carried on about your life as normal.
You have chosen to hear my inner most feelings, so if what I say and the way I say it is an outlet for concern, may I suggest you go see the world, go live.
Thats the reason we can’t seem to help people in this day and age, because we spend more time faffing about on employment rules, red tape, unrealistic representation, uniforms and etiquette than we do being actual human beings.
Go to Ghana…go to Haiti…go to Aleppo…go to places like that…they will all tell you if the things that hurt you the most today, were my few language slips…or my view on bodybuilding/aesthetics/society…then…damn…you ain’t half got it good!
Escape the norm, disturb the paradigm, you’re going to be dead one day…live it!
This is bigger than yours or my clinic.
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